Knee. PsA is a pain in the knee or both knees most days for me. Sometimes that changes…or it moves throughout my body and ends up in other places. Some days the pain is in my feet, with a burning, hot sensation like I am walking on fire. Sometimes the pain is in my arms, hands, and fingers…a constant tingling sensation or sharp nerve pain that jolts my body at times. Sometimes the pain is in my lower back, making it impossible to sit, stand, or even lay down. Sometimes the pain is in my hip…clicking, popping, and causing me agony as I walk. Sometimes the pain is in a toe, or my middle finger..oh boy would I like to just stick it up at some people sometimes….No two areas of pain often feel like the same kind of pain. The pain takes on a body of its own…and has a mind of its own…It just does what it wants to do, which causes me pain.
Pain is something you just learn to deal with when you have a chronic, debilitating, inflammation-based auto immune disease like Psoriatic Arthritis. Pain becomes part of your daily routine and struggle. It’s often hard to forget that you are in pain, because it is always there, regardless of how well or bad you are feeling. You just learn to find ways to work through the pain…to keep going…and most of all SMILE through it.
Pain is not something I like to talk about or bring up to anyone. It is something I suffer with alone. I do not like to verbally complain about it, or share what I am going through because I feel as though know one truly understands, anyway. People may ask you if you are ok, or if you need help, or even how are you doing today? And I’d much rather say nothing at all, then tell them the ongoing list of pain in almost every inch of my body. It’s just so much easier to tell everyone I’m fine, or doing well, or just busy….when in reality I am not ok, I am not doing well, and I’m not busy…I just don’t have the time, effort, or energy to do what I need to do because i’m in so much pain, constantly.
So I’m sure by now you’re thinking, jeez, PSA really is a pain in the #$&*@(!. How can I help to manage this pain? The answer is not easy, and it’s not simple, and it certainly isn’t just 1 answer. There are MANY ways to manage pain.
The first thing you need to do is tell your doctor about the amount of pain you are in. If it unbearable (keeping you from walking, moving, sleeping, working, etc) you have to seek help.
The second thing you have to do is allow your doctor to understand the pain level, and times of day when the pain is at it’s worst. Keep a log of this. Make a little pain #@*(#$ journal. If you don’t want to write or it’s too painful to write…use your phone (hopefully it has voice recognition). Keep a log of it all. When you are in pain, why, and how often. This will help your doctor to give you exactly what they feel will work best for the kind of pain you’re in and also when to take your medication for the pain.
The third thing you need to do is have a great support group to help you when you are in excruciating pain. Hopefully this is either a loved one, family members, or a good friend, or someone you live with that can truly be there for you when you need them the most. Sometimes people are just a phone call or text away. Don’t be afraid to reach out for help, if you really REALLY need it. (Having PsA, I finally have allowed myself to admit that it’s ok to ask for help, even if I don’t want to….I just shut up and DO IT!)
The fourth thing you need to do for pain management, is keep things around you that will help to sooth your discomfort and stress levels associated with the pain. I like to use music, books, essential oils, journaling, lots of water, healthy snacks, magazines, photo albums or pictures of everyone and everything that I love, a comfortable pillow, my fuzzy blanket, ice packs (ready to use in the freezer), eye mask, and anything else that I feel will help me relax and zone out for awhile.
The fifth thing you need to do for your pain is to remember to take time for yourself to heal, rest, and sleep. Without proper rest and sleep, your body will not be able to heal itself properly, thus causing you more pain. Try getting into a healthy habit of falling asleep and waking up at the same time each night. This sleep pattern will help create an internal clock in your body and ensure you are getting enough, restful ZzZ’s!
The sixth and final thing you need to do to help manage your pain is to try to exercise. I know this one is difficult because sometimes when we are in so much pain, we don’t want to move at all. Find a way to move, even if it’s a short walk, or lifting a few weights, doing a few sit ups, or just going for a 5 minute jog. Just keep moving, or else the pain will eventually get worse and worse. You have to try to push through it, even on those days you want to give up.
I hope you find comfort, love, support, and healing. The pain will always be there….you just need to find ways to manage it, control it, and not let it get the best of you, no matter what!!